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The Race

When  I was a little girl, I remember thinking that everything was crashing around me. I was sobbing to my Dad that life was too hard. Funny… looking back now I had no clue how hard life could get. 🙂 He did. Full of love and empathy my Dad read me this poem. It’s still one of my favorites today! Enjoy.

“Quit!” “Give up, you’re beaten!” they shout at me and plead,
“There’s just too much against you now, this time you can’t succeed.”
And as I started to hang my head in front of failure’s face,
My downward fall is broken by the memory of a race.
And hope refills my weakened will as I recall that scene.
For just the thought of that short race rejuvenates my being.
A children’s race, young boys, young men; now I remember well.
Excitement, sure, but also fear; it wasn’t hard to tell.
They all lined up so full of hope. Each thought to win the race
Or tie for first, if not that, at least take second place.
And fathers watched from off the side, each cheering for his son,
And each boy hoped to show his dad that he would be the one.
The whistle blew and off they sped, as if they were on fire
To win, to be the hero there, was each boy’s desire.
And one boy in particular, his dad was in the crowd,
Was running near the lead and thought, “My dad will be so proud.”
But as he speeded down the field, across the shallow dip,
The little boy who thought to win lost his step and slipped.
Trying hard to catch himself, his arm flew out to brace,
And ‘mid the laughter of the crowd, he fell flat on his face.
So, down he fell, and with him, hope. He couldn’t win it now.
Embarrassed, sad, he only wished he’d disappear somehow.
But, as he fell, his dad stood up and showed his anxious face,
Which to the boy so clearly said, “Get up and win the race!”
He quickly rose, no damage done, behind a bit, that’s all.
And ran with all his mind and might to make up for the fall.
So anxious to restore himself, to catch up and to win,
His mind went faster than his legs. He slipped and fell again.
He wished he had quit before with only one disgrace.
“I’m hopeless as a runner now, I shouldn’t try to race.”
But, in the laughing crowd he searched and found his father’s face.
That steady look that said again, “Get up and win the race!”
So, he jumped up to try again, ten yards behind the last;
“If I’m to gain those yards,” he thought, “I’ve got to run real fast!”
Exceeding everything he had, he regained eight or ten,
But trying so hard to catch the lead, he slipped and fell again.
Defeat! He lay there silently, a tear dropped from his eye.
“There’s no sense running more. Three strikes, I’m out…why try?”
The will to rise had disappeared, all hope had fled away.
So far behind, so error-prone, a loser all the way.
“I’ve lost, so what’s the use?” he thought, “I’ll live with my disgrace.”
But, then he thought about his dad, who soon he’d have to face.
“Get up,” an echo sounded low, “Get up and take your place.
You weren’t meant for failure here; get up and win the race.”
With borrowed will, “Get up,” it said, “You haven’t lost at all,
For winning is no more than this–to rise each time you fall.”
So up he rose to win once more. And with a new commit,
He resolved that win or lose, at least he wouldn’t quit.
So far behind the others now, the most he’d ever been.
Still, he gave it all he had, and ran as though to win.
Three times he fallen, stumbling, three times he rose again.
Too far behind to hope to win, he still ran to the end.
They cheered the winning runner, as he crossed the line, first place,
Head high and proud and happy; no falling, no disgrace.
But, when the fallen crossed the finish line, last place,
The crowd gave him the greater cheer for finishing the race.
And even though he came in last, with head bowed low, unproud,
You would have thought he won the race, to listen to the crowd.
And to his dad, he sadly said, “I didn’t do so well.”
“To me you won,” his father said, “You rose each time you fell.”
And now when things seem dark and hard and difficult to face,
The memory of that little boy helps me in my race.
For all of life is like that race, with ups and downs and all.
And all you have to do to win is rise each time you fall.
“Quit!” “Give up, you’re beaten!” They still shout in my face,
But another voice within me says, “Get up and win the race!”

10 Creative Ways to teach children kindness

I read this lady’s post the other day and had to share. I love ways to inspire kindness in children. I’m a firm believer that our examples as parents does the greatest good. I love seeing my children copy the things that I do. I treasure the moments when they are instigating an act of kindness by themselves. especially when they put their own creative twist on it.

Read her ideas 10 Creative Ways to Teach Children Kindness. 

http://mothersniche.com/creating-kindness-in-our-world/

Thoughtful Thursday 08/15/2013

PERSISTENCE = the sustained effort necessary to induce faith.

Faith removes limitations

Happiness is found in doing not merely in possessing. 

Genuine wisdom is usually conspicuous through modesty and silence.

I found these fun quotes from the book by Napoleon Hill, “Think & Grow Rich”

Thoughtful Thursday 07/18/2013

My friend sent me this quote the other day.. I have this weird thing for energy, elements, science etc… so I thought this was really cool. Have a good weekend. Albert einstein

“Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy, this is physics.” — Albert Einstein

Thoughtful Thursday 06/20/2013

The Dash 2Visiting my in-laws in South Carolina this week my Mother-in-law shared this beautiful poem and book with me.    It’s called “The Dash Making a Difference with Your Life” by Linda Ellis & Mac Anderson

The book evaluates each line of the poem beautifully.. I’m going to share the poem and a few of those thoughts in this post, but highly encourage you to find a copy of this book for yourself and read the whole thing

The Dash

by Linda Ellis

I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend. He referred to the dates on her tombstone from the beginning… to the end.

He noted that first came the date of her birth and spoke of the following date with tears, but he said what mattered most of all was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth and now only those who loved her know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own, the cars…the house..the cash. What matters is how we live and love and how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard; are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left that can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough to consider what’s true and real and always try to understand the way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger and show appreciation more and love the people in our lives like we’ve never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect and more often wear a smile… remembering that this special dash might only last a little while.

So when your eulogy is being read with your life’s actions to rehash, would you be proud of the things they say about how you spent your dash?

“Things that matter most must never be at the mercy of things that matter least.” Goethe

“It’s not the things we get but the hearts we touch that will determine our success in life. Making a difference in the lives of others is what the Dash is all about. In the end, however, the significance of our life will be determined by the choices we make. We can choose positive over negative, smiles over frowns, giving over taking and love over hate. It is only when we take responsibility for our choices that we begin to realize we truly are the masters of our fate. Only then will our lives begin to change for the better.

The Dash

Thoughtful Thursday 06/13/2013

I forgot to post this yesterday. 🙂 I was reading the other day and read in a real estate book “The Strategic Coach Seven Laws of Lifetime Growth.”

1. Always make your future better than your past.

2. Always make your contribution bigger than your reward.

3. Always make your learning greater than your experience.

4.Always make your performance greater than your applause.

5. Always make your gratitude greater than your success.

6. Always make your enjoyment greater than your effort.

7. Always make your confidence greater than your comfort.

 

Thoughtful Thursday – 05/02/2013

My Attitude…is My Life

Stopped at a light the other day a peddler on the side of the road caught our attention.  He was dancing.  Not just a little sway of the hips, but full on “bustin the move” right there for all of us to see.   We couldn’t help but watch him and smile.  His joy was contagious to everyone in the car.  We rolled down our window and gave him the snacks I had set aside for the kids.  With a huge grin on his face, and one tooth left in his mouth he smiled with gratitude as he took the food.  We told him he was a great dancer and he replied, “you should hear my poetry!”  He then began rehearsing from memory poems that he had written.  Beautiful.  We thanked him for making us smile today and told him to have a wonderful day.

As I drove away everyone in the car was quiet.  Left to my own thoughts I couldn’t help but think of this man’s attitude towards His Life.  With shabby clothes, only one tooth in his mouth, and tousled hair he carried a smile and wanted to share it with others.  He was grateful for the talents that he had and wanted to share them.

Despite his situation in life he could see the good and focused on it.  I learned a lot from his example that day.

Not only to smile and dance when things get tough, but that….

My Attitude…. is My Life.

While adventuring in Dallas last week we found a little treasure.   We love to search for secret treasures in antique stores, and this poem was the little “gem” we found. 

Attitude

MY ATTITUDE

I promise myself

To be so strong that nothing can                                                   

   disturb my peace of mind.                                                               

To talk health, happiness and prosperity

   to every person I meet.

To make all my friends feel that 

   there is something in them.

To look at the sunny side of everything

   and make my optimism come true.

To think only of the best, to work only for 

   the best, and expect only the best.

To be just as enthusiastic about the success

   of others as I am about my own. 

To forget the mistakes of the past and press

   on to the greater achievements of the future. 

To wear a cheerful countenance at all times 

   and give every living creature I meet a smile. 

To give so much time to the improvement of

   myself that I have no time to criticize others. 

To be too large for worry, too noble for

   anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the pressure of trouble. 

My Attitude…Is My Life

Thoughtful Thursday 04/25/2013

Albert einstein

Albert Einstein

Alright I admit it.. lately in order to get anything done around the house I have been turning on the T.V. or the IPAD for my children to keep them entertained.  It seemed the easiest and quickest way to have a moment of peace.  

My husband and I recently decided in our family to turn off the electronics more and spend that time together.  I can’t tell you the difference it has made even in just one week.  Our children have fought less, helped more, and used their imaginations.  I’m not saying that electronics are bad, but all things are best in moderation.

Check out what Albert Einstein had to say about it….

Albert Einstein was fearful of the growth of technology and its effect on the human race.Here is Albert Einstein’s quote:

“I fear the day when the technology overlaps with our humanity. The world will only have a generation of idiots.”

Now keep that quote in mind and look at the photos below and tell us that Albert Einstein’s prophecy years ago hasn’t come true.

Special-Occassion Having-Coffee Having-Dinner-w-friends enjoying-a-game Enjoying-a-convertible Enjoying-a-museum Date-with-a-grilfriend Day-at-the-beach

Interesting right?

Here’s the original link that was shared with me  Albert Einstein

Have a great weekend.